Recommendations for Approaching and Interacting with Unfamiliar Cats
- Let a cat make the first approach.
- Crouch down with a side-on posture and speak calmly and quietly. Move slowly avoiding sudden movements.
- Slow blink and avoid staring or making direct eye contact.
- Assess the cat’s behaviour and body language to check whether they want to interact.
- Offer the back of the hand, with a softly closed fist, but avoid thrusting it out towards them.
- If they take the initiative and give their ‘consent’ restrict your touch to the preferred areas, e.g. face and around the head, and observe their response.
- Employ the ‘three second rule’:
- Engage with them for three seconds – pause and move the hand a short distance away to give them the choice to end the interaction. If they move towards the hand again continue with the contact as before.
- Stop as soon as they show signs that they wish to end the interaction, e.g. disengage, move away, or show some mild intolerance.
- Do not pursue them or try to coax them to continue with the interaction.
- Engaging with the cat in this way gives them choice which gives them a sense of control – exactly how the cat likes to operate.
Based on Care: Cat Friendly Interaction (iCatCare 2022)
- The ‘CAT’ acronym, developed by Haywood et al. (2021), acts as a reminder to help guide and enhance positive human–cat interactions:
- C is for Choice and Control.
- A is for paying Attention to the cat’s behaviour and body language dur- ing the engagement.
- T is limiting our Touch to their head and neck region where most cats prefer to be stroked.